"A dignified and empowering decision for end of life."

My nearly 95 year old neighbour had stage 4 cancer, and on oxygen permanently which she hated! With being in hospital for the 3rd time since October- she expressed to the care team she doesn’t want to continue living as she had no quality of life! Prior to being hospitalised she was still living independently, cooking, walking everywhere, had a social life, travelled and contributed to her community through volunteering. Her mind was the strongest part of her! It was truely an inspiring moment to be apart of.

The Vad teams process was clear and respectful from the start even communicating via txt and phone calls with her support people so we had an understanding and expectation of next steps, and what it will look like on the day of the VAD. She was given enough time, respect and care. She decided to go out on her terms. We were there holding her hand and it was as if she just closed her eyes and went to sleep! No more pain, no more discomfort or annoying oxygen!! Rest in peace now beautiful lady!