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"Birth: A healing experience"

About: King Edward Memorial Hospital / Maternity

(as the patient),

My first birth experience was a long and difficult journey: after a 15-hour labour, 2.5 hours of pushing, and attempted vacuum and forceps delivery, I experienced a fourth-degree tear. The recovery was long—6 to 12 months—and my postpartum period was filled with trauma, pain, and incontinence. It was an overwhelming and emotionally heavy experience that stayed with me for a long time.

In complete contrast 3 years later, the recent birth of my daughter was profoundly healing. A fast 3-hour labour with only 10 minutes of pushing and not even a graze showed me what my body is capable of when supported correctly and allowed to birth without unnecessary intervention. This experience transformed my confidence and brought me so much peace.

I am incredibly grateful for the exceptional care I received, especially from Olivia at the Family Birth Centre. Her support, presence, and approach played a major role in giving me the healing birth I needed. I truly cannot express how thankful I am for the compassionate, empowering care. 

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Response from Delaney Gibbons, Director, Safety Quality and Performance, Safety, Quality and Performance, Women and Newborn Health Service 3 weeks ago
Delaney Gibbons
Director, Safety Quality and Performance, Safety, Quality and Performance,
Women and Newborn Health Service
Submitted on 24/11/2025 at 11:55 AM
Published on Care Opinion Australia at 12:17 PM


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Dear sambahj88,

Congratulations on the birth of your daughter and thank you for reaching out to share your recent experience at the King Edward Memorial Hospital (KEMH) Family Birth Centre (FBC). I was sorry to read about the challenging circumstances surrounding your first birth and long recovery, and I am so pleased that this birth brought with it such healing and empowerment. Your reflections of the exceptional care you received from your midwife, Olivia are truly lovely to read.

We’ll be sure to pass on your thanks to Olivia - I’m sure she will be delighted to know how much her compassionate care meant to you and your family.

Wishing you all the best,

Delaney

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