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"After a major event I was coping with the wrong strategies"

About: Lives Lived Well – Nowra (Nana Muru)

(as a service user),

Whilst in a state of depression a major negative thing happened in my life resulting in not coping seeking a fix in the wrong way. I managed to ask for help at the mental hub. I was then directed to Eddie for some counselling. Eddie listened to me for a long time. When I finished telling him everything he told me about how all of these things were actually related and what he said made so much sense that I found myself suddenly feeling some hope for the first time in a long time. Eddie made me feel like I wasn’t going crazy, and that I was perfectly welcome to tell him anything and everything. Each time we spoke after that, I found myself feeling more and more hope regarding things being solvable. I found myself even laughing at times. Eddie had a lot of sayings that I found myself starting to remember and even saying to myself, such as ‘feelings aren’t facts, or ‘shame and blame are not our game!’. Over time I found myself using the many tools that Eddie and I would learn in our sessions. I starting realising how Eddie was right.. There is nothing broken about me.. That I just needed some reassurance and guidance about my ability to deal with the things that I had been thinking.

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Response from Kris Crane, Advisor, Lived Experience, Clinical Services, Lives Lived Well last week
Kris Crane
Advisor, Lived Experience, Clinical Services,
Lives Lived Well
Submitted on 17/07/2026 at 11:59 AM
Published on Care Opinion Australia at 12:05 PM


Hello,

Congratulations on all the work you have done, I can hear that it is paying off.

I love how you are speaking about yourself and your worth in this post.

It's great to hear that you had such a positive experience at Nana Maru. it sounds like you were able to do some great with Eddie while there.

Those sayings like ‘feelings aren’t facts, or ‘shame and blame are not our game!’ remind me of my time in early recovery and all the cool phrases I collected.

Keep up the awesome work, I will pass this message on the Eddie and the team.

Kris

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