Before I presented to the PCH ED, I presented to a different hospital's ED twice last month due to a large, red, weeping and bloody lump on the back of my toddler's shoulder blade. During the two presentations at this other hospital's ED, they were treated horrifically by two surgical doctors.
On the first presentation at this other hospital, the surgical doctor decided to drain the abscess by hand without effective analgesia or consent. I requested them to stop and do it in theatre as per advice from the ED doctor but they wouldn’t stop squeezing. My toddler screamed and begged the dr to get off them, to stop, to let them go home. IM antibiotics were requested and myself, a dr and the nurse administering it tried to hold my child who was thrashing and screaming from fear and pain. My toddler's muscle was too tense and the fluid bubbled under the skin and shot out when the needle was removed. My toddler kicked the nurse in the centre of their face during this. The rest of this story, which details how the infection spread, a second presentation resulted in a repeat of the first horrific treatment, this time by a different surgical doctor, can be read here.
The next day I presented to PCH ED in the middle of the early hours of the morning because my toddler had been uncontrollably screaming for hours, I believe because they were so psychologically damaged and anxious about ever seeing another doctor or hospital again and they still wouldn’t let me touch them so I was limited in the amount of comfort I could provide.
I think PCH staff were also mortified, it was quite clear how distressed my toddler was and they did their best to gain my toddler's trust and avoid them. My toddler was placed on the emergency surgery list for that day and had to begin 4-hour fasting after a snack in the morning with hopes of mid-morning surgery. My toddler was then scheduled for the afternoon and allowed a few sips of fluids at lunchtime. They finally went into theatre that night and woke around 10 hours later. This was 24 hours without any food, 34 hours since their last meal, 18 hours without a drink. My toddler slept on and off for the remainder of that day.
The swab taken at the original ED that first day tested positive for an infectious disease. Hospital staff at PCH had to be fully gowned when entering our room.
"Delay in surgery for toddler"
About: Perth Children's Hospital Perth Children's Hospital Nedlands 6009
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Update posted by Heartbroken Parent1 (a parent/guardian) 3 years ago